There is always hope. Sadly some people makes it seem like there's no hope at all. Attitude is so important, physical looks are genetics but how you carry and present yourself is attitude. You may have been born with certain characteristics but then attitude is one that you can train in a person. It doesn't seem like much but in the end it plays a huge role. You may be pretty or handsome but if you have a horrible attitude then forget it. Whatever else that's good that you have built before this will be in bits and pieces. Your reputation would be in tatters because of one blunder that you have committed. Is it all worth it? Is losing everything because of a small blunder worth it? Worse sometimes, when you socialise with someone and he/she doesn't have a really good reputation but it isn't totally bad either but then the bad might spill over onto you. Then what? Would you unfriend that person? It's scary what can happen in our society. Today we are judged extremely harshly by the society. Our society today knows no mercy.
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There is always hope. Sadly some people makes it seem like there's no hope at all. Attitude is so important, physical looks are genetic...
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We were getting along so well, getting to know each other even more... What happened to us? Why did we turn out like this? Once upon a time...
Humans give us hope. Humans also take it away. We just really need to ensure that we manage to look at the brighter side of life. If we no longer hope, then that's it.
ReplyDeleteAgreed. A positive outlook on things will help us along the way :)
DeleteI agree. I think nowadays people want to blame their problems and issues on other people, saying they influenced them etc. But really we can only improve ourselves and we are the ones responsible for our actions. Just be kind and beneficial to others without judging and excluding!
ReplyDeleteAutumn | It's Autumn's Life
I know right! I try to refrain from judging nowadays, it's kinda hard not to at times. Even to just be kind to others is hard especially so when they have wronged you. :(
Deletei think it is also important that we live our lives as we like and not be pressured and bow down to others' expectations of us
ReplyDeletehttp://popiahc.blogspot.com
So true! We only have to be true to ourselves. :)
Deletefor me attitude is everything. you have got higher education but not with good manners is nothing. i do agree with you :)
ReplyDeleteI so heart you. :D
DeleteSometimes hope gets sucked out of me by other people too, but you know what this gives me the opportunity to weed out the people I want in my life and those I would stay away from.
ReplyDeleteYeah, I get how you feel. But I absolutely hate having to weed out people. They were once dear to me after all. :(
DeleteHuman is as complex as the galaxy... and there are always two sides to everything. I choose to look at the positive.
ReplyDeleteGiglove,
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Totally agree with you. We should all look on the positive side of things more often than not.
DeleteNever give up hope... Stay positive and everything will turn out to be positive, just the matter of time..
ReplyDeleteGiglove, http://cre8toneprincess.blogspot.com
Thanks :) I won't, no matter what happens.
DeleteGood post. It's very important to have a good character, but sadly not many people are aware of that. It's useless to have good looks but bad characters.
ReplyDeleteI know right, glad some of us still realises that. :)
DeleteYes I agree..... Attitude is always important ! If you dont have one that stands out or that sucks ..... its such a pity !
ReplyDeleteYeap, attitude is important. A good attitude will stand out in any scene. :)
Deletewell sometime human can be really selfish...guess we have to make the best out of it!
ReplyDeleteyeah we can only make sure we don't turn out like them. :)
DeleteAwesome post. You can't change society but you can make sure you're an amazing person.
ReplyDeleteThe Life of Leeshastarr
Every little decision helps. If everyone can just decide to make sure they're an amazing person, well the world would be a better place.
Deletenever judge a book by its cover and never listen to the gossip you hear. two points i follow
ReplyDeleteGood points to follow. :D
DeleteAttitude is definitely very important. Sometimes, association can truly make or harm a person's character, but as personal practice, I rely on my own judgments in the event that I have to judge someone.
ReplyDeleteThat's good. :) I usually withhold my judgment till I have concrete evidence. :)
DeleteWell I try not to lose Hope for sure. But off late I have been cautious as to who I mingle with 'coz a bad association can hurt you more than ever.
ReplyDeleteGIG Love
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Tell me about it, I feel horrible when I mingle with the wrong people. Being hurt does not feel good at all.
DeleteI like your post, just because it's so true and so real, which is quite sad :( x
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Glad you like it. :) The truth is saddening is it not. *sigh*
DeleteHumans just love to judge and compete but being more open, it makes life just that much happier =)
ReplyDeleteTell me about it. I feel so tired when people try to compete with me in every sense of the word till it leaves a bad taste in my mouth, is it so hard to find good company that won't judge and will just take you as you are? :(
DeleteI think tbh all we can change is our attitude in situation where we can not change the outcome we can only change how we view that situation and how we act towards it.
ReplyDeleteThat's one way to see it. Thanks! You've given me a different way to view it now. :)
DeleteAbsolutely agree with your every word. Then again, they are human being.
ReplyDeleteGIG Love,
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We're all humans. That's why we all have to learn to forgive snd forget. :) It is easier said than done though. :( The forgiving part comes naturally to me but the forgetting part is like ugh.. -.-
Deletesad to say, it's human nature, isn't it? we all love to cut ourselves a lot of slack and be harsh on others. we hate to be judged, yet pass judgement on others so readily just based on what we see on the surface.
ReplyDeleteSad truth. I can't say I completely don't judge others but I do try not to at all. Everyone deserves a chance to present themselves with clean slates on our mind, don't you think so? :)
DeleteI like the concept of hope. It's really what keeps most people going, and in some cases, keeps them alive.
ReplyDeleteYeah totally. Hope is an important part of us. :D
DeleteI agree! Society can be extremely harsh in this age and i believe that social media is a huge influence behind it.
ReplyDeleteI know, social media can be a good influence but then it becomes bad when used for the wrong reasons. :(
DeleteHaving some deep thoughts after reading your post. Impressive!
ReplyDeleteThank you! :)
DeleteLove it! And also agreed! Hope is very important!
ReplyDeleteGlad you did and it is! ^.^
DeleteThe world can be cruel a lot of times, but as humans we should learn how to care for each other and maybe the best thing to do is to start the change within ourselves. Maybe then out attitudes and behaviors can positively influence other people like a ripple effect. :)
ReplyDeleteTotally right. :D Have courage and be kind right ;)
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