Believe, Love & Hard Work

This post is long overdue. I heard on mix.fm one of the mornings sometime last week about the number of divorce cases increasing. It's really saddening to hear off so many divorce cases. What happened to the happy endings? What happened to the vows we took on our wedding day? Did we not mean what we said? How is it possible that a couple could just end their relationship over one hurdle? I don't understand those that get a divorce over minor matters nowadays. *sigh* I do not get it at all. Apparently according to what I've heard on the radio, it is said that couples that get a divorce are in their twenties. Young people. All in their twenties. I love happy endings and have always believed in them since forever. The fact is I know it is hard to stay together especially in the face of adversity. However, if that is so then no one would be married today. :/ It isn't fate that makes a happy ending, it is YOU! Yes YOU! You decide on your happy ending. Believe it or not, your choices are what makes your future and determine your path. I love fairy tales and happy endings, I believe in mythical creatures that many say do not exist. I believe in giving everyone a second chance. Indeed I do, everything is water under the bridge after some time. I believe in everything. Hahaha I'm a dreamer and I believe that no matter how difficult a problem is there's always a solution and that no matter how impossible a dream seems it is still possible! Contradiction at work right.. Ahahaha all will be well if only you believe. It's the same with divorce cases, as long as both individuals work together as one and add faith and love, nothing is impossible. Though I also do believe that one should be careful when looking for ones other half, make the right choices. Follow your heart. That should do it. I think.. Hehhe I'm still learning everyday after all. There's a new experience waiting every single day! Disney, I'm glad my parents introduced them to me, for the first thing I learnt from them is to believe! :) 

-a dreamy kid-

Who would you choose?

Which path would you choose if faced with such a decision? Here's the problem, the girl has fallen in love with a guy, let's call him guy A, she confesses her feelings towards him but gets rejected for some reason. Then, she soon meets another guy who later develops feelings for her and decides to confess. Although guy A rejects her confession he still treats her really nice and good which is exactly the way guy B treats her. Now here's her dilemma, she's in love with guy A but at the same time she also loves guy B. So which should she choose? Confusing right? In my opinion I only see three options. One, she can choose to wait for guy A. Two, she can choose to accept guy B's confession. Three, she can choose neither guy A or B and just stay single.

My choice? Option three of course! Neither! :D

Why did I choose neither? Well here's my reasoning. Guy A has already rejected me. I would definitely be heart broken and sad. :( When guy B comes along and treats me well, well i feel that its kinda convenient don't you think? I believe myself to be in love with guy A problem is he rejects my confession on whatever basis, but then again do I wait for him to come around or do I let go and try to get over him. Move on. Two very simple words yet difficult to comprehend. Sometimes when we believe we have  moved on. That may not be the case, perhaps our brain has believed so but our heart isn't ready to let go just yet. Takes a lot of factors to come into play and the drive and determination of one to 

I'll further explain my choice now. Since guy A has rejected my confession, I would of course be heart broken and sad. :( Then comes along guy B which is well just convenient. What better way to heal broken heart than to just get right back into the game! Guy B treats me really well, then confesses. I feel that I may still have feelings for guy A but at the same time I also have an attraction towards guy B, which leads me to the conclusion that guy B may be a rebound relationship. Which is really bad and unfair if that's the case for guy B. So in the end since I'm so unsure and indecisive so I guess I'll just go go neither guy. It's safer and that way no one gets hurt. Haha! That's why my choice would be neither. Not being sure and just jumping into a relationship is not good at all. I find that relationships like that brings a lot of conflicts in the future. :) 

That's all there is to it. :) I know I said I'll further explain but then this is all that I could think of on why not to choose either of them. :/ This is the end of my trail of thought .. Heheh Well, please drop a comment to let me know what your take on this is. :D TTFN! 

-a confused girl-